If we were all bald, many of us would have to rely on our inner selves for aesthetic beauty rather than our fancy hair accessories and sexy long waves. Imagine the character cutting your hair will build you! Finally, once you've decided on a look you love, get referrals or use your own hairstylist whom you trust and go for it. If you're really bent out of shape on the day of your appointment, get your haircut anyway but go a little less drastic, in other words, little by little. With each visit, you'll be able to work up the guts to go a little shorter each time. Go to Hairstylesdesign.com to find some inspiration if you don't have a celebrity, neighbor or woman on the bus to be your muse.