Throwing your inhibitions to the wind is just so much more fun!

I told myself there would be no sex last night (I just want him to get to know me). But the date ended with us standing naked in his living room, using my hair clip as a prop in a golf lesson.

We had some heated discussions about anal, leather chaps and swingers' clubs prior to meeting up yesterday. My mind was far from sex though, since our first date kicked off at a patio with his sister and her coworkers. Karaoke, stale beer and Greek salad was involved - not usually a sexy combo.

It was fun though and his sister wanted to keep it up, so the three of us went back to her place for homemade lattes. She also has two very well-mannered little ones and a quiet hubby. It wasn't intimidating at all meeting family. It was actually refreshing to be on a date in a more social setting. Plus, you really get to know a person better by how they socialize. Of course, this also meant we kept our hands off each other for the majority of the night.

We arrived at his place very late, and tired. He asked if I wanted some weird concoction of cranberry/black cherry juice so I followed him to the kitchen. Our first kiss in front of the fridge led to him leaning me back on the dining room table, ripping all our clothes off and taking me twice with the curtains open in front of a patio door in a high rise.

Standing naked in the kitchen, we replenished our fluids. He proceeded to show me how to properly hold a golf club (mop) and hit a golf ball (hair clip). He has a good memory. I had asked about golf technique earlier in the night.

Had I known the night would end on such a pleasurable note, I would have done some landscaping. But I've never had sex on a first date before. Still, it's by far been one of the most memorable ones this year.

Of course, don't ever let a man push you into something you don't want. But if you make a secret agreement with yourself and change your mind about it in the end, certainly forgive yourself in the name of pleasure.

By Christine Atkinson

Christine Atkinson, Manventures
		About the author:
		You can thank Christine’s Montreal roots for her sass and unveiled approach to sex and relating. Now based in Toronto, this self-proclaimed music (and sex) fiend consistently finds her dating world to be wrought with wrenches. Is this master dater truly the queen of her domain? Or is she unwittingly a victim of deceitful (and delicious) men? In either case, her misadventures are littered with hilarious mishaps and quirky events which prove dating an extreme sport for the heart (and inner thighs) in a metropolitan city.
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Hey, I did the same thing... said I will not be labeled as "easy" or whatnot. But after a 5 year dry spell I didn't think "easy" really applied to me. I met a wonderful guy, slept and stayed over on the first date and now look, a year and half later we move in together. I wonder where this thing came about that sex on the first date was bad? Maybe if you have a first date everyday it would be bad... I don't know... food for thought maybe... Congrats Christine, I wish you much more pleasure!

stacy , August 07, 2009 | url

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