Wed, May 23 2012

First Date Deal-Breakers

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Five Things We Hate To See On A First Date


altFirst dates are scary, there is no debating that. What to say? What to wear? Will you like him?

Often compared to a job interview, the first date can seem like an interrogation, or a test. Points are given (for, say, a great movie reference) and points are taken away (see: living in Mum's basement).

For many of us, all of his great qualities can be overshadowed by a few small, but very significant, slip ups.

Here are the top deal-breakers that Canadian women encounter on their first dates:

1. Dirty Fingernails
Guys, seriously. It's not hard to keep those claws clean. A simple (and very essential) scrub with a nail brush before leaving on a date takes only a few minutes, and is totally worth it. And, while you're at it, make sure they're not too long. We hate that too.

2. Talking About Your Ex
Everyone has an ex, and if you make it to a second or third date, the subject may very well come up. But on a first date, do not bring up your ex. If speak sweetly of her, we just assume you're not over her, and if you speak harshly of her, we just think you're a bit of a jerk.

3. Using Your Cellphone
You're smack in the middle of what could turn out to be a stellar conversation, and your phone rings. Do not pick it up. I repeat, do not pick it up. On a first date, a phone should be placed on silent, and left in your jacket pocket. If you must check your call log or messages, do so while I'm using the washroom, never, ever at the table.

4. Talking About My Ex
Yes, women love to be asked questions. Inquire abut our jobs, our hobbies, our goals and aspirations, but for the love of all things holy, do not ask about our past relationships. When we're ready, we'll bring it up on our own.

5. Bad Breath

Sure, the garlic shrimp was delicious. But you know what else is good? Gum. You can find it any just about convenience store, gas station and pharmacy. It comes in all sorts of flavours, like peppermint, spearmint and winter mint. Typically, it only costs about $2.00 and it's actually pretty fun to chew! Invest in a pack. It might be the best thing you pay for all night. Bad breath is a definite no-no.



Photograph c/o House of Sims on Flickr


Billie Misha
About the author:
Billie got her start in the media industry as a photographer. Snapping on red carpets and at film events, she quickly learned that if a picture speaks a thousand words, a blogger speaks a million. She has written for dozens of websites and online publications, and loves to scoop stories on the steamiest scandals, the biggest and best trends,and whatever else is making news RIGHT NOW!
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