Does He Know You're Into Him?

Are you the kind of person who is more of a "go-getter" in relationships than most of the people you know? That's okay. There's nothing wrong with taking initiative and letting your current love interest know that you'd like to date. 

But, be forewarned. Sometimes the messages that you think are sweet and innocent actually translate as coming on to strong. Do you know the difference? 

Here are some tips on how to approach him without freaking him out:

Suggest, don't demand
So you're 100% comfortable with asking him out, good for you! Confidence is key and will get rid of any insecurity he may have about your interest in him. One thing you want to be careful of is coming across as forceful. Suggest a coffee date or time to hang out, but don't overdo your boldness. Just because you know he likes you and you've mustered up the courage to get him alone, doesn't mean that you should be brazen about it. You don't want to intimidate him. If you're trying to get him to ask you out, drop hints to let him know you're open to the idea.       

Let him talk
Dominating conversation is a bad idea.Sometimes girls get the idea that because guys can be oblivious, they should reinforce their interest again and again, and this results in chattering away until he's convinced you're crazy or that you've consumed four Red Bulls. Ask him questions, engage in two-way discussions, show him you care about what he thinks and what he's up to. Back off a little and let the man speak. 

Don't pester 
If he doesn't respond to your text within the three minute time slot you've given him, don't nag him or overload his inbox with twenty more. Be patient and realize that if he feels the same way that you do, he will want to communicate with you, and not because he thinks you will be annoyed with him otherwise.

Courtney Gilmour
		About the author:
		Courtney is a published writer, stand-up comic, and shameless Internet enthusiast. She holds a double bachelors degree in English Literature and Communication Media Studies, specializing in semiotic theory, however she doesn't get Shakespeare and has never won a game of Scrabble. Currently she lives in Toronto and works as a writer for WOMAN.CA.
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